Saturday, October 30, 2010

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Prov 3: 5,6
 
The LORD has so directed our paths this past week in ways we never could’ve imagined. Many of you have heard what has happened in this past week, but I think it would be best if you heard it from me. On Wednesday I took Nathan into the Dunnville ER, he was complaining about sore lower legs especially the left one, he was also not feeling well. We thought it was just a virus, and they would give Nate some pain medication and send him on his way. The LORD had a different plan for Nathan. He deteriorated through out the day, and so they transferred him by ambulance to Hamilton General ICU. Immediately he was rush upstairs where they began to work on Nate. They sent him for a Cat Scan and gave him blood products en route. Within a couple of hours we were notified that Nathan had necrotizing fascitis an extremely fast acting bacteria that attacks (eats) the tissue and muscle, and had to be sent for surgery as quickly as possible. Before going in I was able to spend some time with Nate. The LORD allowed us to join in prayer and recite our wedding text. The Holy Spirit was at work in Nate and he was so at peace, his last words to me were "God is in control".

Aileen has asked me, (Stephanie, Nate’s sister) to take over as she’s not quite sure how to continue. I hope that I can relate things in proper detail for her.


At 10pm I had a brief conversation with Aileen who quickly updated me on what they had just diagnosed Nate with and told us that he was heading into surgery immediately. Nate went into surgery shortly before 11pm. Family and friends quickly gathered and waited. Shortly after 2 am the doctors were able to informed Aileen and then the rest of us that Nate had survived surgery but was in critical condition. Due to the extent of the bacterial infection the doctors had to remove Nate’s left leg above the knee. The right arm and right leg were also effected, a lot of tissue was removed, but surgery had to be aborted due to heart failure. They were able to resuscitate and stabilize Nate. We thanked our Heavenly Father for allowing Nate to survive and giving him more time here on earth with us.

In the morning the doctors informed us of how critical Nate’s condition was and that he would likely need further surgery to remove additional damaged tissue. We were able to give thanks again later that day that when the doctors did the daily bandage changes they were extremely impressed with how little extra tissue damage there was, especially considering how quickly they had to abort the procedure the night before. It was determined that surgery was not need that night as had first been expected. Our Heavenly Father has provided us with much to be thankful for once again.

God knew we all needed rest. We were able to see Nate before we went home to rest. All things considering, Nathan looked peaceful and was finally receiving the rest he so badly wanted the day before. Each of us were able to get a few hours of rest before we received a call at 10:30 am Friday morning that it appeared the infection had spread into Nate’s abdomen. Surgery would be necessary once again.

God graciously granted us a few hours to spend at Nate’s bedside in prayer and encouragement. At 5:30pm Nate was finally taken to surgery. While the situation continues to remain extremely unstable and critical we could be thankful that the bacteria had not entered the abdominal cavity. Further tissue removal was necessary on both the right and left side of his torso. Once again surgery had to be aborted when Nate began to become unstable. God once again showed His mercy and compassion in allow the surgery to be abort before Nate endured heart failure again. Together with family and friends we were able to pray and sing Psalm 121 and Hymn 49.

At the time of writing Nate continues to remain very unstable as the doctors try stabilize his blood pressure, heart and bleeding.

We continue to covet your prayers.
"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1

47 comments:

  1. I admire your strength through this terrible ordeal. Please let me know if there is anything that I (or Sheehan's) can do during this time of need. Nathan is part of our Sheehan's family so it's great that you have posted this blog so that we can all stay abreast of his progress.

    Marc Poland

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  2. Although we do not know you personally, as brothers and sisters in the Lord we are remembering you all, as well as the medical community caring for Nathan in our prayers. May the Lord be your Strength and Comfort during these incredibly difficult days. May He be gracious unto you and again grant Nathan life and health.
    Tim and Elly Hutten and family
    Glanbrook Canadian Reformed Church

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  3. Dear Nathan and Aileen.

    You are in our thoughts and prayers and we wish you the Lords strength through this difficult time. Praying for you all.

    Andrew and Michelle Vanderven and children.

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  4. Dear Aileen and family: May our Father in Heaven grant you all that you are in need of during this trying time. Praying the Lord will surround you all with His everlasting love and comfort. May the Lord quide the doctors/nurses in their decisions to do whatever is necessary to stabalize Nathans life and restore him to you and your family.
    In Christian love: Ben & Anita Poort

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  5. You've all been on my mind and in my prayers constantly since hearing the news. May God grant you all that you need during this difficult time.

    Marlaine Vanderhorst

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  6. "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD. Isaiah 55:8
    We do not always understand God's ways but we know that He keeps us in His care. May He surround you with His love at this time. We are praying for Nathan's reocvery and that He give you Aileen, the strength that you need at this time.
    Ralph & Jane Vis & family

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  7. Nathan and Aileen,
    You and your family are in our thoughts always, and we are praying for you and the kids often.
    Dan and Leslie Hutchinson

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  8. Praying for Nathan and his family along with extended family and friends. May God be with you all during this difficult time.

    Dwayne & Nicole Muis
    Grassie Canadian Reformed Church

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  9. Nathan and Aileen,
    We will continue to uphold you in our prayers as you deal with this. We pray for a blessing on the work of the doctors. May you feel His loving arms surrounding you through the communion of saints.

    Nathan and Michelle Helder

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  10. I have been currently doing a bible study in which I was reminded yet again that God does all things to the good of those that love Him. We are praying that He gives strength to your family as well as to the doctors and surgeons hands that all may be well with Nathan. May God bless you as you traverse through this difficult time and may you always be reminded of His great grace and mercy.
    Thinking of you and praying faithfully,
    Henry and Sharon Vis

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  11. May God surround you with His loving arms, and may you rest assured in the knowledge that He doesn't make mistakes. Illness is a consequence of sin, and our Lord Jesus Has conquered death and sin. Do not be afraid, he is safe in Jesus' arms, not matter what happens. I will pray for his recovery and restoration to his family.

    Thea Heyink
    Glanbrook Can. Ref. Church

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  12. Nathan and Aileen,
    We are thinking and praying for you and the kids as you deal with this.

    Kevin and Shari Aikema

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  13. Nathan, Aileen and family,

    You are continuously in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May God give you the strength Nathan to fight this and make a speedy recovery.May God give all family and friends love,comfort and strength in dealing with this most trying and testing time, and may God give strength and support to all of the Healthcare team in doing everything they can to help Nathan.
    Anything, big or small that we can do for you Aileen, please dont hesitate to ask.

    Jason & Amy Kerrigan and family

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  14. We continue to pray for all of you.
    May you all continue to be assured that our covenant God is in control. May He surround you with His love and mercy.
    Jake and Winnie Bos

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  15. Diek family,
    We are praying for you. May the God of all grace give comfort and strength to you all. We pray for healing for Nathan. God IS in control.
    Chris & Michelle Wiersma
    Cornerstone, Hamilton

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  16. Nathan & Aileen
    Praying constantly for you that God gives you all the strength and support you need in this difficult time. Trust in God!
    Love Brian & Andrea Hartman

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  17. We also are remembering Nathan and your family in our prayers. We pray that our Lord continues to bring strength and comfort to you all.
    Fred and Arlene Ludwig and family
    Owensound

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  18. Both the Diek and Feenstra families are in our thoughts and prayers. May our God give you the strength to accept His will in this difficult situation. W&J Oosterhoff & family

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  19. " Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which trancends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Phil 4:4-7

    Nathan, Aileen & family
    It is our prayer that God will continue to strengthen you and grant you the peace only He alone can give.

    Darryl & Emily Bosscher

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  20. Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers have been with you since we heard about Nathan's condition from my sister (Anne VI). May our Father grant strength and healing to Nathan, and comfort to you all as you go through this trial.
    Alina & Mike Noot

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  21. Nathan, Aileen and family,
    Our hearts go out to you all during this time of pain. We cannot even begin to understand how you must be feeling, although we can rejoice over here that you have God by your side, and there is nothing greater then that. We will continue to pray to God to give you the strength you need to get through this.
    Love Arnie and Cathy Hofsink
    +family

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  22. Our prayers are continually being offered up on behalf of Nathan and all his family. May God bless the work of the doctors, and continue to uphold you all.
    Much love,
    James and Rachel Kingma

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  23. Nathan, Aileen, and Feenstra and Diek families,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you continually. May the Great Physician bless you all with comfort,strength and healing during this very difficult time. May He carry you all in His loving arms and comfort you.
    John and Diane Bosscher and family

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  24. Our prayers and thoughts are with you since we heard about Nathan's condition.
    May our Heavenly Father carry you in the palm of His hand during this difficult time.
    Henry and Wilma Vis

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  25. Our prayers and constant thoughts are with you Aileen and your children, also the Diek and Feenstra families. Your wedding text is a sure comfort for you in this trying time. All our lives are in His hands.
    Neil and Carrie DeVries and kids.

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  26. You've been on our minds and hearts, and we are praying with you that our God will grant healing to Nathan. Also praying that your faith will continue to uphold you during these difficult days.
    Brad & Rebecca and family

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  27. We are praying that God continues to give you strength during this difficult time!
    Tracy Lynn and Erik Hoeksema and family

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  28. Dear Nathan Aileen and Family,
    Our heart goes out to all of you through this difficult time. We pray to our Lord that His will be done and that He may give you strength and comfort through all of this.
    "If I go to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast." psalm 139 8-10 May we praise the Lord in knowing that through all things He is holding us, He is there for us.
    Lots of Love,
    Mike, sherry, kai and levi.
    as well as the rest of the family from Vernon.

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  29. Our prayers are with the Diek and Feenstra families during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the knowledge that God is indeed in control at all times.

    "...without the will of my heavenly Father not a hair can fall from my head;" - Lord's Day 1

    Jon and Sharon Kingma and family

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  30. Nathan, Aileen and Family
    You are all in our hearts and thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
    Thinking of you all
    Mark & Corrina & kids

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  31. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and your families during this difficult time. We pray that you will find yourselves carried by Gods sure promises. In Christian Love, Keith and Suzanne Wielink and family

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  32. "Be still, and know that I am God;" Psalm 46:10a

    May God grant you and your families the strength necessary during these trying times.

    With Love
    Andrew and Kerri Hordyk and family
    Grassie Covenant Canadian Reformed Church

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  33. You are continually in our thoughts and prayers. May you be strengthened by God's love and find comfort in Him alone.
    With love,
    John & Robin Schulenberg & family

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  34. Nathan Aileen & Loved ones,
    You have been constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We don't know the paths along which our Shepherd will lead us, but we can always trust that it will be the right one. What a comfort we have in our Lord & Saviour! May He continue to give you, your family and those around you, including those giving medical care, all that you are in need of in this time of uncertainty. "Cast all your anxieties on Him because he cares for you" 1 Peter 5:7
    Gus & Trish Hopman & Family

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  35. Fred and Evelyn VanderveldeOctober 30, 2010 at 7:16 PM

    Nathan, Aileen and family
    We are praying that you may be upheld by our Heavenly Father in this difficult time. May it be His will to grant healing.

    Love Fred and Evelyn Vandervelde and family

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  36. Ernie and Jane SchulenbergOctober 30, 2010 at 7:34 PM

    May our great and heavenly Father uphold you in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

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  37. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Diek and Feenstra families at this difficult time. The LORD is our strength.
    Warren and Mary Ann Hoeksema

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  38. Nathan, Aileen, and family
    May God grant you all strength and comfort as you go through this extremely difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families and we pray that our heavenly Father will graciously preserve Nathan's life and as the Great Physician grant healing.

    John & Wilma Groenwold & family
    Glanbrook Cdn. Ref. Church

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  39. Aileen and Loved ones. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. How quickly life can change. As we can also relate, the LORD gives us strength beyond measure if we trust in HIM. " ask and it will be given to you" Trust in the LORD always. With you all as our hearts together cry out to our Heavenly Father for the STRENGTH we need. He will never leave us or forsake us. Love Maurice and Lorraine VanSpronsen

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  40. Nathan, Aileen, and family. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. We pray that you will find strength in Him.

    Will, Juanita, and family

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  41. Praying for you Aileen and Nate, your children and your extended family for peace and comfort and strength. You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

    Debbie and Drew Robert

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  42. May God keep you all in His care. We continue to keep you in our daily prayers. Thank you for your up dates. Many people ask questions at Shalom Manor. A lot of people are praying for you and your extended family. God Bless you and keep you.
    Diane H. At Shalom Manor.

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  43. Rose and Bob SchulenbergOctober 31, 2010 at 10:51 AM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this terrible time!
    We are praying that God will hold you in His hands and keep you near.

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  44. Nathan and Aileen, we continue to remember you and your children and family in our prayers. May you find all that you need in God our Heavenly Father. He is the Great Physician and only he can grant healing. May He hold you in the palm of his hand during this time. Ryan and Alana Schutten

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  45. We do not know you personally but please know that you are in our prayers.

    Andrew and Marie Kieft
    Rehoboth Can Ref Church Burlington

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  46. We met at Henry and Sue's wedding last year and are friends of the Aikemas here in Neerlandia.
    Just wanted to let you know we have also remembered your family before the Lord in our prayers.
    Marie Stad (and family)

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  47. I don't know you, but, I love you for your faith and trust in God. You have made a big difference in my life.

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